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Narcissistic Parent: How They Affect You

Narcissism is an issue in itself. Narcissists are controlling, they warp principles when it benefits them, and they can even cause serious, detrimental health affects. But a narcissistic parent can make life a living hell from the get go. Yes, a narcissistic parent. Not just that, but a narcissism enabling parent. Parents that don’t have the backbone, don’t have the initiative, whatever it is for …

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Health Risks to Being With a Narcissist

Narcissism is a serious topic, with genuine health risks. Don’t get me wrong, most of them aren’t serial killers, or hiding a few corpses in the crawl space of their home. Most of them are functioning, even successful people, who can easily blend in well with others. Not just that, but exude charm and style when they need to. But most of them have subtle, and very …

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How to Not Want to be With a Narcissist

Even when it’s a toxic, or even abusive relationship, with a narcissist, it’s difficult to go to a friend to make you feel better. When they give you advice, how are you supposed to know if what they’re saying is true, or if it’s unbiased. They are your friend after all, they might be low-balling some things. You’ll have people in healthy, happy relationships, telling you to …

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Narcissists and ADHD: Why Do I Attract Narcissists?

WHY PEOPLE WITH ADHD and ADD ATTRACTED TO NARCISSISTS If the emotional world was an ocean – then Narcissists would NOT be the Great White Sharks. They would be Megalodons. And Empaths would be Seals. Not “seals” as in US NAVY S.E.A.L.S. badass, tough guy, air/land/sea warrior version either. No, this would be the “Awww” look at how cute!”, scared for them to get into …

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How to Destroy a Narcissist

Q: What should I do if I want to destroy a narcissist? A: If you want to destroy a narcissist, and leave a serious emotional wound in return for the countless times they’ve ripped you open, just to make them know you’re willing to fight back – or get a morsel of your own dignity back, then I only know 3 options that work depending …

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The Agony of Empathy

“Fools” and “Love” – Two things that go hand-in-hand since the beginning of time. The ecstasy of feeling the powerful pull of romance with its heart-pounding rush of adrenaline, euphoric sense of being capable of the impossible and addictive flood of dopamine and seratonin. It’s like peanut butter and jelly. Wait – even better, it’s like strawberries and chocolate. Or a fireplace and makeout session. …

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