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Holding On During No Contact

No Contact is a struggle. There’s no way around it. It’s you putting your foot down in a relationship, something a lot of caring people have a tough time doing. And why wouldn’t they? No Contact is when you look at where you are in your relationship, recognize the other person is – seemingly – moving on, and you decide to stop shoving your love …

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Narcissists and ADHD: Why Do I Attract Narcissists?

WHY PEOPLE WITH ADHD and ADD ATTRACTED TO NARCISSISTS If the emotional world was an ocean – then Narcissists would NOT be the Great White Sharks. They would be Megalodons. And Empaths would be Seals. Not “seals” as in US NAVY S.E.A.L.S. badass, tough guy, air/land/sea warrior version either. No, this would be the “Awww” look at how cute!”, scared for them to get into …

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How to Destroy a Narcissist

*This article is in response to a question posed on Quora. Q: What should I do if I want to destroy a narcissist? A: If you want to destroy a narcissist, and leave a serious emotional wound in return for the countless times they’ve ripped you open, just to make them know you’re willing to fight back – or get a morsel of your own …

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